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Judith Elizabeth Balogh McCarthy, known lovingly as Judy, died on May 4, 2026, at the age of 77. She was born on July 8, 1948, in Manhattan, and lived a life marked by devotion to her family, loyalty to her friends, and a quiet strength that touched everyone who knew her. Judy was the beloved wife of the late Richard Alan McCarthy, and together they built a family rooted in love, resilience, and enduring connection. She was a devoted mother who carried both joy and sorrow in her heart throughout her life. She was preceded in death by her infant sons Michael and Mathew, as well as her son Kevin McCarthy. She is survived by her sons Rick McCarthy and Brian McCarthy, and by her cherished grandchildren Cody and Brian McCarthy Jr., who brought her great pride and happiness. She is also survived by her sisters Jennifer Julie Balogh, Toni Greene, and Amy Wengenroth. She was predeceased by her brothers and sisters Julius Michael Balogh, Joanne Balogh, Arthur Anthony Balogh, and Ann Wentz, and she leaves behind many nieces and nephews who will remember her with affection and gratitude.
Judy spent her life working hard and giving generously of herself to the people and places around her. She worked at Italian Carousel for 20 years, where her dedication and dependable nature made her a valued part of the team and a familiar, welcoming presence to many. She later devoted 15 years to the Ramsey school system, where her work supported students, staff, and the daily life of the school community. In both of these roles, Judy was known for her strong work ethic, her kindness, and the steady way she carried out her responsibilities.
Those who knew Judy will remember her for the simple joys that made her happiest. She loved fishing, camping, and cooking, and she found comfort and pleasure in time spent outdoors and in the kitchen. Her cooking reflected the warmth of her personality, and her meals were often an expression of care and togetherness. Whether she was sharing a quiet moment by the water, enjoying the peace of a campsite, or preparing food for those she loved, Judy created memories that will remain with her family for years to come.
Judy’s life was one of perseverance, love, and family devotion. She experienced profound loss, yet continued to carry herself with dignity and grace. Her presence was steady and reassuring, and her family and friends knew they could count on her. She was a woman who valued connection, who remembered the important moments, and who understood the strength found in showing up for others. Her legacy lives on in the family she loved, the work she completed with pride, and the many lives she touched along the way.
As the poet Maya Angelou once wrote, “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” Judy made others feel cared for, welcomed, and loved, and that is how she will be remembered. Her memory will remain a blessing to all who were fortunate enough to know her, and her life will continue to be celebrated through the stories, laughter, and love she leaves behind.
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